Your inner circle is the most powerful force in your development. The research on social contagion is unambiguous: everything from your income to your happiness levels is statistically correlated with those of your closest social contacts.
The Audit
For each of the five to seven people you spend the most time with: Does this person challenge me to be better? Does spending time with this person leave me energized or drained? Does this person tell me the truth?
The Hard Part
Some relationships need to end. Others need to be reduced in intimacy and time. Still others need to be deliberately elevated. You are not owed the inner circle you need. You have to build it.
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